Okay! Fine! Stay calm! So, the word is out and you know that the girl you have been noticing for a few days likes you. What do you do now? Go head on and tell her you to like her too? I don’t think so, pal. You see when things are starting to work, that is when you need to be even more careful because even a tiny wrong move can mess the whole situation up. You see most men do something right after they get a hint from a girl and that turns the tables most of the times. Girls, unlike guys, are very subtle in making indications that they like you. In the case of guys, their feelings and their emotions are pretty much written all over their faces. But in the case of girls, it is extremely subtle and inconsistent. The reason I am emphasizing on ‘inconsistent’ will be explained further in the article. Therefore, if you do want it make it to the girl’s heart for good, read on!
What Do You Do If A Girl Likes You?
I mentioned above that girls are far more inconsistent than guys when it comes to signal someone that they really like them. By inconsistent, I am directly referring to the fact that one moment a girl can be all about you, that is, she can be flirting with you, complimenting you or telling you that you look cute, and the very next moment a girl can be completely off and seem like an entirely different person. This only increases the confusion. The confusion is even more heightened when guys do something irregular out of panic and make the situation even worse. A girl or a woman gives hints in small and sudden bursts just like a lion, just that in the case of the girl, she is not trying to hunt you down. She may say something like “You look cute” or “You look handsome” or “You are so funny” or “You are really smooth.” Shot and subtle compliments are a girl’s way of saying that she likes you. Now you need to be really careful once you know that she is indeed into you. Read on if a girl likes you what do you do–
Understand There Is A Difference Between “I Like You” and “I Like You No Matter What”
This can be much better explained with a more elaborate meaning of “I like you”. It can be translated into “I like you but only for now and I will stop liking you if you start acting weird and stupid”. Just because a girl is hinting you that she likes you does in no way means that she likes you for good and is ready to jump on the wedding wagon. No! This only means that she perceives you as someone who is attractive and possesses certain qualities that she admires. The usual response of a typical guy when he senses that the girl in into him is that he turns into a potato and starts acting Mr. Nice. Girls hate that. Some may love it but then again, they are not the ones you should be after in the first place.
Try And Identify The Signal
This is a major setback among boys that they cannot identify the signal. Signals are really simple and subtle when it comes to girls as I already mentioned above. But it is also important to identify the correct signals. Guys usually take up any signal and translate it into liking. Girls may at times be over friendly but that does not mean that they like you. On top of that, you may ruin in completely beyond repair if you start acting upon it. This will only make you look like an idiot and do nothing more as the girl does not feel about you the way you think she does.
Do Not Do What Most Men Do
Just don’t. There is not any other way to put it. Once you know for sure that a girl likes you, your instincts will kick in and you will try and behave differently. Do not do that. I repeat, do not do that. Girls absolutely hate that. The moment that begins to happen, they will realize that you were acting as a different persona this whole time and a little affection from her side has led you to show your true colors.
For instance, do not say or behave in a certain way that you think would impress her because the ground reality is that she probably has heard or experienced that a million times earlier this week only from various other guys she met. If she compliments you with an “I think you are cute” or “You are funny”, do not re-compliment her by saying “You look cute too” or “You are funny as hell as well” because to be honest there is nothing new in this and to be very blunt, it is boring. Show her that you are different and not like the Romeos she meets every day down the road. This brings us to the next step.
Build Up The Sexual Tension
In the previous point, we discussed that most men overdo it and this leads to a drastic decline in the liking that the girl had started developing for the guy. The correct way to handle such a situation would be to build up the sexual tension.
The ‘sexual tension’ or as many call it, ‘chemistry’, is a product of the attraction between two people of the opposite sex. To get a better understanding, you need to understand the basics of any kind of tension. Tension is created when things do not go smooth. Be it a relationship, a job, work environment, a workout or in this case the level of attraction.
For instance, if you are with a girl and she compliments you with an “I think you are cute”, you do not go ahead and reply with an “I think you are cute too”. Instead, you say something back in a neutral or preferably serious tone that in no way is complimenting in nature. Like a ‘Thanks’ or ‘You think?’ or ‘Really?’ You can even go a bit overboard and try something like “Yeah, I’ve heard that before”.
Now be careful not to sound like a jerk. Be sure that you are polite enough and maintain a subtle smile.
The more the sexual tension, the more chances will be that she would be confused. Now, this is the trick of making a girl like you more. The more confused she gets, the more interested she will be in you. You will appear to her as unpredictable, unlike those who she meets on a daily basis.
Probably, the aptest movie scene that describes this point is the one from ‘Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back’. At the very end, when Princess Leia confesses her love to the wildcard and robust Han Solo, he replies back with a rude “I Know”.
There you go. All the tension between them just skyrocketed in a matter of seconds and Han suddenly got even sexier.
To wrap up the lesson, all you need to do is –
- Identify the signals
- Not act stupid once you do
- Understand that there the girl will not like you forever
- Try and be different
- Build up on the sexual tension.
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